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Saturday, July 2, 2011

Nothing to Wear: Week 2


This week was a little bit of a struggle for me. I'm not naturally one to agonize over what I'm going to wear, but after doing laundry last weekend, I was afraid I would lapse into outfit repetition after only a week. How sad! I need to be more creative!




Monday
Perfect for a day in which I got almost nothing done.

White Tee: TJMaxx; Teal Damask Top: Maurice's; Shorts: Kohl's; Necklace: Charming Charlie's; Shoes: Rocket Dog from Zappos


Tuesday
I stood in front of my closet for a couple of minutes before declaring to Matt that I had nothing to wear. He looked at my clothes and said "What?"
I thought maybe he hadn't heard me, so I repeated, "I have nothing to wear."
"WHAT?"
"Okay, I have nothing cute to wear."
He put his face about two inches from the clothes on his side of the closet. "I have nothing to wear!"
Guys just don't get it.

Shirt: Maurice's; Skirt: Kohl's, from like 10 years ago (seriously! it's by Mudd!); Pumps: Guess from DSW; Necklace: Target; Bracelets: Forever 21


Wednesday
I almost considered blowing this whole project off and succumbing to T-shirt and jeans. You guys, I am so bad at creating outfits. It took me a ridiculously long time to find something that looked good. Sister picked this top out for me last year, and she paired it with white skinny jeans and a long black cardigan. Every time I've worn it since then ... you guessed it. White skinny jeans and a long black cardigan.


Top: White House Black Market; Jeans: Maurice's; Shoes: Isaac Mizrahi from Target; Earrings: Claire's; Necklace: gift


Thursday
Today's outfit took no effort. Dresses are easy breezy beautiful. I went to a job fair.



Dress w/ Belt: New York & Co.; Pumps: Guess from DSW; Necklace: Target


Friday
Maybe I'm getting better at this? I'm pretty pleased with how this one turned out.

Sweater: TJMaxx; Tank Top: Target; Shorts: Kohl's; Sandals: Target; Watch: Charming Charlie's; Earrings: Target

Morgan blogged the other day about planning your outfits in advance, and about midway through the week, I took her advice and picked out the next five days of clothes. Even though it still took me a while to figure out what would look good together, I think it will prevent me from standing in my closet and feeling like a fashion loser every morning.

How often do you repeat outfits?

Monday, November 12, 2012

Nothing to Wear: Be My Stylist

This weekend my sister came to visit me, and as often happens when she comes to visit, she and I went into my closet and determined that all my clothes suck.

Fine, they don't actually suck. As far as a viable everyday wardrobe, I've been very careful this year to be intentional about the pieces I buy to make sure they're versatile. I think I've done a pretty good job; this girl can work at home comfortably and still have enough nice pieces to be able to go to a business lunch or networking event and not look like a twelve year old.

But my sister pointed out one flaw: all of my clothes are either casual or business-y. I have no "dressy" clothes. And, as she pointed out to me, Thanksgiving and Christmas are mere weeks away, and I have nothing to wear to them.

So I bought two new skirts. I've actually had "black pencil skirt" and "black non-pencil skirt" on my Clothes I Need list for a long time, so both of these were pretty good purchases.

Left: Target ($16.99). It says on the website that it's a mini skirt, but it's really knee-length (at least on me; I'm 5'3"). It's also not real pleather. The website says it's not available in stores, but it totally is. Basically the website is completely wrong. And the skirt is cuter in person.
Right: Maurice's ($32). Their website is accurate.

Normally when I go shopping, I try to think of five different ways I can style each piece before I make the decision to buy it. But I kind of jumped the gun in my haste to find cute skirts, and now I'm not sure what I should wear with these other than a white button-down or black turtleneck (because I'm EXCITING). Between Christmas and Thanksgiving and non-family Christmas parties, I've got at least seven different events to attend. (I suppose I don't have to wear the same two skirts for all of them, but I'm lacking ideas right now.)

How would you style these skirts? What do you plan to wear for various holidays? Is it too early for me to be worrying about this?

Monday, October 6, 2014

Book Reports: The Martian, Nothing to Envy, Attachments

It's been quite a while since I've done a book post. I've been reading up a storm this year, and a lot of them have been really good. But of course, I mainly choose to write posts about the books that I just found to be absolutely excellent.

If you're interested in seeing what else I've read, check me out on Goodreads.

The Martian by Andy Weir
I'll preface this by saying I'm not really into sci-fi. I don't do fantasy, and I like my worlds to be fairly realistic (or at least close enough to realistic that I don't have to suspend too much belief). What surprised me about this book was how realistic it seemed. There was a heck of a lot of math and science in this (fictional) story, but the way it was told was so entertaining and suspenseful, it kept me on my toes the whole time.

Mark is one of six astronauts to ever set foot on Mars, but when a dust storm damages their equipment and blows a metal satellite straight into Mark, puncturing his spacesuit, the crew has to cut their mission short and bail out, leaving Mark for dead. Only it turns out he didn't actually die, and instead finds himself alone on a planet that it took months to travel to, with limited food supplies and no way of communicating with his crew.

Basically, every single thing he does on the red planet just might kill him for real; wear and tear on the space suits he has remaining, the frequent dust storms, the lack of significant amounts of food, and of course "plain old human error." And Mark determines (through math!) that even if he could get word to his crew that he was still alive, it would take them more than 400 days to get back to Mars to pick him up.

The story is pretty ingenious. Mark is a smart cookie (you'd have to be, to be an astronaut!) and the way he MacGuyvers his remaining supplies in an attempt to stay alive and fix his broken communication signal is brilliant. Only thing that might put some people off is that there are a lot of F-bombs in this book, but … well, what would you be saying if you were trapped on Mars?! A

Nothing to Envy: Ordinary Lives in North Korea by Barbara Demick
With all that's always going on in the world, I never really thought about North Korea, other than the fact that the U.S. was worried they might have nuclear weapons. I don't remember who recommended Nothing to Envy to me, but oh my goodness. This book was FANTASTIC. The author is a journalist who has visited North Korea officially several times, and found herself frustrated that the North Korean government tended to put on a big show for visitors, while hiding any potential unpleasantness about the country. She interviewed six North Koreans who had defected to South Korea in order to get a true picture of life in North Korea.

Those defectors painted such vivid pictures with their stories. The woman who worked as a doctor, but ended up nearly starving to death when her salary was cut because the government couldn't afford to pay her anymore. The mother who worshipped the Kim family, but was looked on with suspicion because of her grown daughter's anti-regime comments. The famines that the government tried to cover up, the stores with nothing available for purchase inside, the danger and risk it took to get out of North Korea, because North Korea didn't want its citizens leaving and China didn't want the North Koreans entering its country.

The title of the book comes from the propaganda posters that former dictator Kim Il-sung had hanging all over the country — We have nothing to envy in the world! North Korea is the richest and best country! The United States is a terrible and consumerist country that would seek to destroy our way of life! — messages that play a big role in how North Koreans are raised and what they believe. They have no (legal) access to the Internet, radio or television, except for the shows and movies that the Korean government releases, which are all propaganda too.

Overall, it was just a fascinating, horrifying, beautiful work. Can't recommend highly enough, especially if you're interested in other cultures or history. A+

Attachments by Rainbow Rowell
I've seen the blog world singing the praises of Rowell's books for months (years?), but hadn't had the opportunity to pick up any of her books until now. I've signed up for a couple of book clubs in Virginia to see if I can find one that's a good fit when I get there, and this was the chosen October book for one of them, and so I was glad that my opportunity had arrived.

The year is 1999, and daily newspaper The Courier just got its staff on an e-mail system. The bigwigs at the paper are freaking out about the increased use of technology in the newsroom, and so they hire Lincoln to be, essentially, a living spam filter: his job is to read the employees' e-mails and flag ones that contain inappropriate words or content, and send notices to the offending employees. Lincoln hates his job.

But when Lincoln starts reading the correspondence between Beth and Jennifer, he doesn't send them a notice about using company e-mail for personal use. Instead, he looks forward to their conversations getting caught in the filter. And eventually, he starts to fall in love with one of them.

This book was totally cute. The characters were real people you could see yourself being friends with (or already having friends like them). I loved the candid-ness of Jennifer and Beth's friendship, completely told through e-mails. This was a refreshing and fun read, and felt similar in tone to some of Meg Cabot's adult novels. I'm looking forward to reading more of Rowell's work. A

Have you read anything just absolutely fantastic lately?

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Nothing to Wear: Week 1

It's officially the first week of summer! Nothing like a good season change as a starting point for some other changes.

I mentioned that I decided to document my outfits as a way of keeping myself motivated and confident while I'm unemployed. Here's how I fared this week.

Tuesday
I was wearing this when Matt came home for lunch, and he asked if I'd gotten the shirt from my sister. I took this to be the world's highest compliment. Sister is in school for fashion design, and is much more stylish than I am. I totally called her to brag about it too.

Shirt: TJMaxx; Shorts: Kohl's; Shoes: Rocket Dog from Zappos; Necklace: Charming Charlie's

Wednesday
I love these shoes, and I don't get the chance to wear them enough. They're massively uncomfortable, but they make me feel sexy. I wore them for a few hours in the morning, twisted my ankle, and switched to green flats.


Shirt: White House Black Market; Vest: New York & Company; Shorts: Kohl's; Earrings: hand-me-downs from Mom; Shoes: Mossimo from Target

Thursday
I know this is just a spin on a T-shirt and shorts, but I felt summery and cute. I would like to thank the mannequin at Maurice's for the layering help, because otherwise I would never have bought it. (It's partially sheer!)

Shirt and Tank Top: Maurice's; Shorts: Kohl's (I think); Shoes: Yellow Box from Zappos; Necklace: Charming Charlie's

Friday
I went job hunting, so I wanted to look professional without dying of heatstroke. (How is it already soooo hot outside?) I have to say, I'm not super confident in this outfit. I like the top, but every time I wear it I go straight to black pants / red belt / red shoes / red necklace. Sometimes I switch out the necklace for a pair of red earrings. It doesn't feel fashionable at all, but I don't know what else to do. I feel like thicker belts with tunic tops just make my torso look really short. Suggestions?


Top: Forever 21; Pants: Zinc from Dillards; Belt: Target; Shoes: Mossimo from Target

What's your favorite place to shop?

Monday, November 4, 2013

A Day in Canton

I've never been a big shopper, but most of the women in my family absolutely loooove it. My sister, aunt and maternal grandmother regularly go shopping in Canton, a city about two hours from the Dallas-Fort Worth area that sets up this enormous open-air market once a month for vendors — and hordes of shoppers looking to score a deal — to attend. My aunt usually goes at least a few times per year, maybe even more.

I had never felt any inclination to go when I was younger, because it was described to me as "a giant flea market," and I just don't understand that thrill-of-the-hunt mindset that comes with flea-market shopping. Driving two hours to browse with no specific intended purchases? Are you nuts?

But a few weeks ago, my sister Rachel texted me and asked me if I wanted to go to Canton with her and my aunt. And I figured that I could go up to visit my family for the weekend, because if I didn't, I might not manage to see some of them until Christmas. So I agreed.


I later found out that the reason I got invited was because Rachel is dating a boy who is also named Matt, and when Rachel asked my aunt if she wanted to go to Canton with "me and Matt's mom," my aunt assumed that "Matt's mom" was my mother-in-law, and asked if I was going too. So I got invited. And then my aunt figured out what the heck was going on, but by then it was me, Rachel, Mom, my aunt, "Matt's mom" and the boyfriend himself who planned to spend the whole day shopping together.

(Because of the obvious confusion of having two significant others of the same name, we were all calling the boyfriend various names, and we figured that had to end so we could stop being confused as to which Matt was being referred to at any given point in time. So we finally all agreed that we would simply call the new boyfriend "Matteo." He used to live very close to the Texas-Mexico border, and that's what his mom called him when they lived there. So henceforth, should I ever mention Matteo, that is my sister's boyfriend, while "Matt" is still the name of my husband. Standard dibs rules applied.)

Monday, July 11, 2011

Nothing to Wear: Royal Edition

Thanks to the short week and the fact that we were out of town for a few days to attend my sister-in-law's wedding (EEEEE!), I fell off the wagon and didn't snap any photos of my outfits last week. I did get dressed up cute most of the days, but I didn't wear anything super unique or cool, and I feel no shame. Because of this:


I seriously adore Kate Middleton. If you could combine her and Kristin Chenoweth, that's the person I want to be when I grow up.* And if Duchess Kate can wear the same jeans three days in a row like any other human being, then I shall not feel bad about "recycling" outfits.

Though I promise I really will try to continue to mix-n-match better.

Who do you want to be when you grow up?

*I feel like there's always more growing up to be done. Technically I'm a twenty-something, though I still feel like I'm 17 the majority of the time.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Nothing to Wear: Week 4

Monday
I think it's about time to retire this bomber jacket. I bought it years ago — before bomber jackets were even in style — on clearance, but never quite figured out how to look good while wearing it. I think it's the puffy sleeves; they are overwhelming on me and make me look like a linebacker.

Jacket: Forever 21; Tank Top: Maurice's; Skirt: Kohl's; Shoes: Yellow Box from Zappos; Necklace: Target

Tuesday
I tried something new. I love scarves. I have a bazillion of them and no real way to wear them nine months out of the year. I kind of think this works. What do you think?

Tee: TJMaxx; Shorts: Kohl's; Shoes: Nine West; Scarf: No tag and don't remember; Earrings: Wal-Mart

Wednesday
Sister talked me into buying this belt about a year ago. I think it was one of the best purchases I ever made. It looks good with EVERYTHING.

Tank Top, Jeans and Bracelet: Maurice's; Shoes: Guess from DSW; Belt: New York and Co.; Earrings: Gift

Thursday
I didn't put much effort in for this one. Early morning dentist appointment. But the hygienist told me I looked cute.

Blouse: Gap; Jeans: Maurice's; Necklace: Charming Charlie's; Shoes: Nine West


Friday
Headed out to the lake! I know this is simple and kind of blah, but ... I sat in a car for three hours and then sat (IN THE HEAT. IN TEXAS. IN JULY.) by the lake for two days. Plus, I really like the sparkly detail on the collar.

Tee: Express; Shorts: Kohl's; Shoes: xhilaration from Target


Husband has noticed that I'm taking pictures of my clothes all the time. For some reason this is hideously embarrassing to me. Maybe I can get over that embarrassment and get him to take pictures for me, so I can stop doing them in the mirror and use the flash and maybe some of them won't turn out blurry and grainy. Maybe.

What do you consider to be the best clothing purchase you ever made? Was it an accessory? An outfit?

Monday, March 7, 2016

Skin Care, or How Apathy Became Obsession

I have never had much interest in beauty products. I like lip colors a lot, and I wear a minimal amount of makeup everyday, but otherwise, you could pretty much guarantee that I was Not Interested. I routinely skipped past advertisements and recommendations for new treatments in the Beauty section of the few magazines I subscribe to, and I was generally bored by discussions of omg wrinkles crow's feet laugh lines aaaaah.

But then … a couple of months ago, I came to a realization. My skin was looking rough. There's a picture from Christmas from when Matt and I visited Washington D.C., and I swear you can tell how dry my skin is just by looking at the picture. I'm 28. I never developed a skin care routine, unless you count routinely falling asleep without washing my face. I was starting to see some good-sized creases in my forehead that didn't go away when I stopped making faces, and my skin always felt super itchy and dry.

And I thought maybe I was worrying about nothing, so I asked some friends about their skincare routines, and that's when I learned that I have been doing my entire life wrong. I didn't even know what my correct skin type was, so I don't know what I expected to happen when I bought face products. The few products that I had used and liked are, apparently, The Worst for your skin, according to people who pay attention to that kind of thing, and all the good habits I never developed are, apparently, Super Important. Things like, remove your makeup before bed! and Wear sunscreen every day! and If your skin is already dry, stop using things that dry it out more!

I bought moisturizers for day time and moisturizers for nighttime, cleansers that don't have skin-destroying plastic scrubby things in them, sunscreen that doesn't feel slimy and look greasy. I finally pulled the trigger and used a gift card to buy one of those face-scrub brushes that I've been thinking about since before we got married (… almost five years ago). I've become a tiny bit obsessed with reading about Korean skin care products, and got a subscription to the Jini Beauty Box so I can try out some of the products suggested by people who know what they're doing.

For years I pooh-poohed the idea of skin care because there's nothing wrong with aging and I'm going to look the way I'm going to look whether I spend money on face cream or not and  it all seems so complicated and I have other things to think about. (At my sister's bachelorette party, I compared skin care "routines" with both the bride and my cousin, and discovered that NONE of us had ever removed our makeup before bedtime.)

But it makes a difference. In how my skin looks and how it feels. And how I feel about myself. I'm a convert.

I'm still early enough in the process that I'm hesitant to share my favorite items yet (plus, discovering new ones all the time!), but maybe I will over the next few months. My sister has asked for recommendations when I find things I like, so I'm excited that maybe my trial and error will be helpful to someone that is still as apathetic as I used to be about the whole thing.

What are your favorite beauty items? At what age did you start to get serious about your skin?

Monday, August 26, 2013

How I Avoided Spending $81 on Dry Cleaning

I realized that after I posted about trying to sell my wedding dress, I didn't really explain my reasoning behind wanting to sell it. I'm not always sentimental, but when I am, it's usually about things pertaining to my  relationship with Matt (seriously, I have a whole box of notes that Matt and I used to pass back and forth between classes in high school; most of them are written in Morse code, and I can't even read Morse code anymore), so I thought I should do a little better job explaining myself.

After two years of my wedding dress sitting in its garment bag, in the exact same state it was in at the end of my wedding, I decided it was time to start the process of selling my dress. It was a hard decision — I know I don't normally get attached to "things," but a wedding dress is something sentimental, something that people pass down to their children. I think I would have loved the idea of a future daughter trying it on.

But it was ultimately my mom that helped me make the decision. My mom had her dress cleaned and preserved back in the '80s, and it sat in its box for 30 years. When I got engaged, she offered the dress to me, but it wasn't really my style. She understood. My sister was there for this conversation too, and she agreed with me. And at that point, knowing that neither of her daughters would want to wear her dress, my mom donated it to Goodwill. She had pictures of it, she had the memories, there was no reason to hold onto something that was never going to get used again, that was taking up way too much closet space. (My mom is nothing if not practical, so this wasn't really an emotional decision for her.)

Because let's be realistic. I may or may not ever have a daughter. If I did, she may or may not even like my dress, in which case I will have held onto it for so long for no reason. I'm never going to use it again, so someone else might as well get some enjoyment out of it. (I am keeping the veil, though. My sister says she might want to use it as her something borrowed when she gets married.)

So with the decision to sell my dress made, the next step was finding a way to get the stains out of the hem. Other than some small black smudges around the bottom and under the hem, the rest of my dress was still in perfect shape.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Road Trip Detour: Milwaukee and the Jelly Belly Factory

After we moseyed on out of Chicago, we headed north to the land of cheese. Wisconsin! Another state I'd never been to! (Check!) Compared to the day before with our frenetic sight-seeing pace, this day was downright low-key. 

When we were planning this trip, Matt's mom told us again and again how great the custard is in Wisconsin, so we decided that if nothing else, we wanted to go get some custard in Milwaukee! She remembered a place they had tried years earlier, called Kopps, with giant hamburgers and frozen custard, and we made that our one goal on our way to our destination for this leg of the trip, Madison.

As we passed into Wisconsin, we started seeing signs advertising tours of the Jelly Belly Factory. And because it wasn't too far out of the way — only a couple of miles off the highway — we thought it would be a riot to take the tour.


Saturday, July 30, 2011

Nothing to Wear: Partial Week 6

Wednesday
Lookee here! Hubs agreed to start taking pictures, and they look LOADS better than my crappy MySpace-looking shots! Hooray! You can see my accessories clearly! You can see my shoes! I am SO EXCITED!

Dress: New York & Co.; Jacket: White House Black Market; Earrings: Target; Bracelet: borrowed from my mom; Ring: Charming Charlie; Shoes: Yellow Box from Zappos

Thursday
My sister and I steal each other's clothes all the time. She told me one time I needed to get a pair of white jeans, and I kind of scoffed at her. Why on earth would I wear white jeans? Turns out, she had bought a pair that she didn't wear much, so I borrowed them. They've been in my closet for over a year, so I guess they're mine now. I like them a lot.

Top: Maurice's; White jeans: White House Black Market; Shoes: White House Black Market; Belt: Came with a dress I got at Macy's; Bracelets: Charming Charlie; Earrings: Hand-me-downs from my sister

Do you ever borrow clothing from your family members?

Friday, February 28, 2014

February Wrap-Up

I was convinced it was mid-month for the entire month of February. How confusing. But! I'm looking forward to March! Matt will defend his dissertation and be done forever! Spring will be here! People will wear pretty dresses to the Oscars! Matt and I will have officially been together for NINE YEARS! (Do people still count dating anniversaries after they're married? We don't celebrate, but it's in my phone and I have no intention of removing it from the calendar.)

Food Challenge: Cook All The Way Through a Cookbook
I'm cooking through the "Bride and Groom First and Forever" Cookbook.


"Butter Lettuce With Mango, Goat Cheese & Mighty Mint Vinaigrette." Okay, so I used bag salad instead of butter lettuce, because my grocery store is not fancy enough to carry anything besides romaine and iceberg. I was really not expecting good things from this salad, because I don't like mangoes. Or goat cheese. Or fresh mint. So I was pleasantly suprised by the results! I had two bowls of it for dinner one night while Matt was out of town. A far cry from my normal fare when he's gone.


"Green Beans, Beets and Goat Cheese With Sherry Vinaigrette." This salad was not as good as I was hoping it would be. I didn't want to pay $$$ for walnut oil or sherry vinegar for one recipe, so I omitted the former and used white wine vinegar in place of the latter. Matt took one look at it and decided he'd rather eat the remains of the mango salad. I did have the cold leftovers for lunch on a hoagie roll, and I actually preferred eating it the second/third/fourth days after all the flavors had melded and the beets turned everything bright pink. Everything is better in bright pink. 

Completed: 34 of 150

Food Challenge: Sample Every Flavor of Bluebell Ice Cream
Even though I'm not crazy about mint-the-plant, I'm a sucker for mint-flavored ice cream. Mint Cookies 'N Cream finally made an appearance at HEB, after I'd been looking for it forever, and it was amazing. We shared it with some friends, but I would have been happy to eat the entire half gallon by myself.

I bought Matt another half-gallon of Coffee ice cream for his birthday. We originally tried this flavor back in September, and this time I didn't mind it so much, so long as there was chocolate syrup and sprinkles on top. I'm growing up?

Completed: 58 out of 72 flavors

New Year's Resolutions: More Lipstick, Less Sugar, More Time With Friends
I finally had people over this month! I invited some girls from church over for craft night, and I used a bunch of old scrapbook paper to make these homemade cards.

I've always got tons of envelopes around and nothing to do with them, so I'm happy to have a use for them too!

Apparently I can only focus on one resolution at a time, because the lipstick and sugar ones fell by the wayside. But I did buy a Lip Butter from Revlon on Catherine's recommendation, and it's a bright Barbie pink (ahem, "Sorbet") and I love it. :)

Other Adventures
I reviewed the book Moonwalking With Einstein, which I would recommend. I talked about saying yes and avoiding regrets. I caught my typical weather-change cold/sinus thing. We chatted about ambition after I got back from the George H.W. Bush Presidential Library. I shared some book quotes that inspired me this month. I showed you our house updates in preparation of the next steps in our lives. This blog celebrated its third birthday! And we got DEEP into small talk.

Do you like doing crafts? What type of projects are you working on?